[30032025] ADAB

ISLAM datang dengan banyak yang TAK BOLEH!

Tetapi ISLAM datang dengan LEBIH BANYAK yang BOLEH!

Jangan lupa, ISLAM datang dengan ADAB!

Berikut adalah senarai adab mengikut keutamaan dalam kehidupan seharian, bersumberkan Al-Quran dan Hadis:

1️⃣ Adab dengan Allah

✅ Sentiasa bertakwa, menjaga solat, membaca Al-Quran, dan bersyukur atas nikmat-Nya.

📖 Firman Allah:

"Dan tidak Aku ciptakan jin dan manusia melainkan untuk beribadah kepada-Ku."

(Al-Dhariyat: 56)

📖 Sabda Rasulullah ﷺ:

"Hak Allah ke atas hamba-Nya adalah mereka menyembah-Nya dan tidak menyekutukan-Nya dengan sesuatu pun."

(HR. Bukhari & Muslim)

2️⃣ Adab dengan Rasulullah ﷺ

✅ Mengamalkan sunnah, berselawat, dan mencontohi akhlak Baginda.

📖 Firman Allah:

"Sesungguhnya telah ada pada (diri) Rasulullah itu suri teladan yang baik bagimu."

(Al-Ahzab: 21)

📖 Sabda Rasulullah ﷺ:

"Barang siapa yang mencintaiku, maka dia akan bersamaku di dalam syurga."

(HR. Tirmizi)

3️⃣ Adab dengan Ibu Bapa

✅ Berbakti, bercakap dengan lemah lembut, dan tidak menyakiti hati mereka.

📖 Firman Allah:

"Dan Kami perintahkan kepada manusia agar berbuat baik kepada kedua ibu bapanya..."

(Al-Isra’: 23)

📖 Sabda Rasulullah ﷺ:

"Redha Allah terletak pada redha ibu bapa, dan murka Allah terletak pada murka ibu bapa."

(HR. Tirmizi)

4️⃣ Adab dengan Guru

✅ Menghormati, mendengar nasihat, dan menuntut ilmu dengan ikhlas.

📖 Firman Allah:

"Allah akan meninggikan orang-orang yang beriman di antara kamu dan orang-orang yang diberi ilmu beberapa darjat."

(Al-Mujadilah: 11)

📖 Sabda Rasulullah ﷺ:

"Bukan dari golongan kami orang yang tidak menghormati yang lebih tua, tidak menyayangi yang lebih muda, dan tidak menghargai ulama."

(HR. Ahmad)

5️⃣ Adab dengan Diri Sendiri

✅ Menjaga kebersihan, bercakap yang baik, dan mengawal emosi.

📖 Firman Allah:

"Sesungguhnya Allah mencintai orang-orang yang bertaubat dan mencintai orang-orang yang menyucikan diri."

(Al-Baqarah: 222)

📖 Sabda Rasulullah ﷺ:

"Barang siapa yang beriman kepada Allah dan hari akhir, hendaklah dia berkata yang baik atau diam."

(HR. Bukhari & Muslim)

6️⃣ Adab dengan Keluarga

✅ Berkasih sayang, bertolak ansur, dan membantu satu sama lain.

📖 Firman Allah:

"Dan berbuat baiklah kepada ibu bapak, kaum kerabat, anak-anak yatim dan orang-orang miskin..."

(Al-Baqarah: 83)

📖 Sabda Rasulullah ﷺ:

"Sebaik-baik kamu adalah yang paling baik terhadap keluarganya, dan aku adalah yang terbaik terhadap keluargaku."

(HR. Tirmizi)

7️⃣ Adab dengan Rakan & Jiran

✅ Bersikap jujur, tidak menyakiti, dan sentiasa berbuat baik.

📖 Firman Allah:

"Berbuat baiklah kepada tetangga yang dekat dan tetangga yang jauh..."

(An-Nisa’: 36)

📖 Sabda Rasulullah ﷺ:

"Tidak sempurna iman seseorang jika dia tidur dalam keadaan kenyang sedangkan jirannya kelaparan."

(HR. Bukhari)

8️⃣ Adab dalam Majlis & Perbualan

✅ Tidak memotong percakapan, mendengar dengan baik, dan bercakap dengan sopan.

📖 Firman Allah:

"Wahai orang-orang yang beriman, janganlah kamu mengangkat suaramu melebihi suara Nabi..."

(Al-Hujurat: 2)

📖 Sabda Rasulullah ﷺ:

"Janganlah kamu saling membenci, janganlah kamu saling mendengki, dan janganlah kamu saling membelakangi. Jadilah hamba-hamba Allah yang bersaudara."

(HR. Muslim)

9️⃣ Adab dengan Alam & Haiwan

✅ Tidak merosakkan alam sekitar dan menyayangi haiwan.

📖 Firman Allah:

"Dan janganlah kamu berbuat kerosakan di muka bumi setelah (Allah) memperbaikinya..."

(Al-A’raf: 56)

📖 Sabda Rasulullah ﷺ:

"Seorang wanita diseksa kerana seekor kucing yang dia kurung tanpa diberi makan sehingga mati."

(HR. Bukhari & Muslim)

🔟 Adab dalam Media Sosial

✅ Berkongsi perkara bermanfaat, elakkan fitnah, dan tidak menyebarkan berita palsu.

📖 Firman Allah:

"Wahai orang-orang yang beriman, jika datang kepadamu seorang fasik membawa berita, maka selidikilah..."

(Al-Hujurat: 6)

📖 Sabda Rasulullah ﷺ:

"Barang siapa yang beriman kepada Allah dan hari akhir, hendaklah dia berkata yang baik atau diam."

(HR. Bukhari & Muslim)

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The Quran consists of 6,236 verses (ayahs) (excluding Bismillah at the beginning of surahs). Scholars have categorized its content into different themes, including laws (ahkam), dos and don’ts (commands and prohibitions), and adab (ethics and manners). While there is no universally agreed-upon statistical breakdown, the approximate distribution is as follows:

1️⃣ Laws (Ahkam) – ~30%

This category includes Islamic legal rulings (fiqh) related to worship (solat, zakat, fasting, hajj), criminal laws (hudud, qisas), contracts, marriage and divorce, inheritance, and economic transactions.

📖 Example:

يُرِيدُ اللَّهُ بِكُمُ الْيُسْرَ وَلا يُرِيدُ بِكُمُ الْعُسْرَ

"Allah intends ease for you, and He does not intend hardship for you."

📚 (Al-Baqarah: 185 – regarding fasting rules)

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2️⃣ Dos and Don'ts (Commands & Prohibitions) – ~45%

This includes direct commands (obligations) and prohibitions (forbidden acts) concerning faith, morality, and personal behavior.

✅ Commands:

Establishing solat, giving zakat, fulfilling promises.

Speaking the truth, being just, helping the poor.

❌ Prohibitions:

Consuming alcohol, gambling, backbiting, stealing.

Engaging in corruption, oppression, and dishonesty.

📖 Example:

إِنَّمَا يَأْمُرُكُمْ بِالسُّوءِ وَالْفَحْشَاءِ وَأَنْ تَقُولُوا عَلَى اللَّهِ مَا لَا تَعْلَمُونَ

"Satan only commands you to commit evil and immorality and to say about Allah what you do not know."

📚 (Al-Baqarah: 169)

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3️⃣ Adab (Ethics, Morals, and Manners) – ~25%

This portion of the Quran focuses on personal conduct, social interactions, and character development, including respecting parents, speaking kindly, being patient, and treating others with fairness.

📖 Example:

وَقُولُوا لِلنَّاسِ حُسْنًا

"And speak to people with kindness."

📚 (Al-Baqarah: 83)

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✨ Islam itu Indah dengan ADAB!

Jom amalkan dalam kehidupan seharian.

#AdabDalamIslam #IslamItuIndah #JagaAdab

[29032025] Why Argue When You Can Discuss?

In today’s fast-paced world, disagreements are inevitable. Whether in friendships, workplaces, or even online, people often find themselves on opposite sides of an issue. But here’s a question: Why do we jump into arguments when discussions can lead to better outcomes?

The Problem with Arguments

Arguments are often fueled by ego and emotions rather than facts and logic. Instead of focusing on solutions, people get caught up in proving who is right. This can lead to:

❌ Damaged relationships

❌ Unnecessary stress and frustration

❌ Missed opportunities for learning and growth

The phrase “Why discuss when you can fight?” may sound humorous, but in reality, constant arguing creates division rather than progress.

The Power of Discussion

Unlike arguments, discussions encourage understanding. Here’s why choosing to discuss rather than argue is a smarter approach:

✔ Finding Common Ground – Discussions allow different perspectives to come together, leading to fairer solutions.

✔ Strengthening Relationships – Respectful conversations build trust and prevent resentment.

✔ Encouraging Open-Mindedness – By listening to others, we expand our own understanding and improve critical thinking.

How to Shift from Arguing to Discussing

1. Listen Before Responding – Instead of forming a comeback, try to understand the other person’s point of view.

2. Stay Calm and Respectful – Emotions can escalate arguments. Keeping a level head promotes productive discussions.

3. Focus on Solutions, Not Winning – The goal should be to resolve the issue, not to "defeat" the other person.

Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, fighting might feel satisfying in the moment, but it rarely leads to positive results. Choosing discussion over argument shows emotional intelligence, maturity, and wisdom.

So next time you feel the urge to argue, ask yourself: Is it worth it? Or is a calm discussion the better path forward?

#ChooseDiscussion #MaturityMatters #TalkNotFight

[28032025] Not Knowing is Fine, Pretending to Know is Not

In everyday life, we often encounter people who lack in-depth knowledge about a subject but insist on acting as if they are experts. This phenomenon not only harms the individuals involved but also affects organizations, institutions, and society as a whole.

The Importance of Referring to Original Documents

One major cause of mistakes in decision-making is the failure to refer to original documents. Policies and regulations are carefully crafted to ensure consistency and fairness in implementation. However, some people prefer to make assumptions rather than consult official guidelines. This behavior leads to misunderstandings, inaccurate execution, and unjust actions.

For example, in the education sector, every circular issued by the Ministry of Education is designed with clear justifications and procedures. Yet, if someone relies only on hearsay or follows common practices without consulting official documents, errors are bound to happen. Therefore, fostering a culture of referring to original documents is crucial, whether in academia, administration, or daily life.

The Culture of Reading and Understanding Guidelines

Many people take shortcuts by skimming summaries or relying on second-hand opinions without thoroughly understanding guidelines. Every organization has standard operating procedures (SOPs) to ensure that roles and responsibilities are clearly defined.

Reading and understanding guidelines is not just about glancing at headlines or skimming through key points—it requires careful analysis. For instance, in school financial management, specific regulations govern procurement and spending. If someone reads only parts of the guidelines without grasping the full context, mistakes leading to non-compliance are inevitable.

As responsible individuals, we must cultivate the habit of reading thoroughly, asking questions when in doubt, and seeking clarification from credible sources before making decisions.

The Habit of Reading in Its Entirety

A significant problem in communication and comprehension arises from reading only fragments of information or relying solely on headlines. In a world flooded with information at our fingertips, many people form opinions based on headlines or social media snippets without grasping the full picture.

A habit of reading in its entirety is essential because it allows us to understand the true context of an issue before making judgments or taking action. For example, when making policy decisions in education, an officer or teacher must read the full policy, including its background, objectives, and implementation implications. Reading only selected portions can lead to misguided or irrelevant decisions.

It is not a problem if someone lacks knowledge on a subject because knowledge can always be acquired. However, making decisions or giving opinions without sufficient understanding can cause serious harm. Therefore, we must embrace the habit of referring to original documents, reading and understanding guidelines, and consuming information in its entirety before taking action.

Never be ashamed to admit what you don’t know, because acknowledging ignorance is the first step toward wisdom and integrity. Remember, not knowing is fine, but pretending to know is not!

[08032025] Auditing the Auditors: Who Watches the Watchmen?

Auditors play a critical role in maintaining transparency, integrity, and accountability in organizations. They scrutinize financial statements, assess compliance with regulations, and ensure that risks are managed effectively. But what happens when auditors themselves need to be audited? Who ensures that the watchdogs are performing their duties with honesty and competence?

The Need for Auditing Auditors

While auditors are expected to uphold high ethical and professional standards, they are not immune to bias, conflicts of interest, or human error. History has shown that even the most reputable auditing firms can fail in their duties, sometimes leading to massive corporate scandals—think Enron or Wirecard. These cases highlight why auditing the auditors is essential to maintaining trust in financial and governance systems.

Who Audits the Auditors?

Auditors are subject to oversight from various bodies, depending on their jurisdiction and the type of audits they perform. These include:

1. Regulatory Bodies: Organizations like the Public Company Accounting Oversight Board (PCAOB) in the U.S., the Financial Reporting Council (FRC) in the UK, and Malaysia’s Audit Oversight Board (AOB) review the work of audit firms to ensure compliance with legal and professional standards.

2. Peer Reviews: Some professional associations require auditors to undergo periodic peer reviews, where fellow professionals evaluate their work to ensure it meets industry standards.

3. Internal Quality Control: Large audit firms have internal teams dedicated to reviewing audit engagements to detect inconsistencies, errors, or ethical breaches.

4. Client and Public Scrutiny: In cases where an audit fails or raises suspicions, shareholders, regulatory authorities, and the media often play a role in exposing deficiencies.

Challenges in Auditing Auditors

Even with these oversight mechanisms, auditing the auditors comes with challenges:

Conflict of Interest: Large audit firms provide consulting services to the same companies they audit, raising concerns about their independence.

Regulatory Capture: Some regulatory bodies are accused of being too lenient on major firms due to close industry ties.

Complexity of Audits: Auditing multinational corporations requires expertise in diverse industries, tax laws, and regulatory environments, making oversight more difficult.

Strengthening Auditor Accountability

To improve auditor accountability, several reforms can be considered:

1. Stricter Independence Rules: Ensuring that audit firms do not provide consulting services to their audit clients can reduce conflicts of interest.

2. Enhanced Transparency: Mandating greater disclosure on audit processes, findings, and auditor relationships can help build public trust.

3. Stronger Regulatory Oversight: More rigorous enforcement of auditing standards, along with harsher penalties for misconduct, can deter negligence and fraud.

4. Mandatory Auditor Rotation: Requiring companies to change auditors periodically can prevent over-familiarity and increase audit objectivity.

Conclusion

Auditors are crucial to maintaining financial integrity, but they too must be held accountable. Strengthening oversight mechanisms, improving transparency, and ensuring independence are key steps in auditing the auditors. Only then can we truly trust that the financial gatekeepers are working in the best interests of businesses, investors, and the public.

What do you think? Should auditors be subject to stricter regulations? Share your thoughts in the comments!